We live in a state where technology surrounds us. It is a part of all that we do. Quicker access to take pictures, and video, of our daily lives seem trivial to some. But, as we are getting back into the swing of things, this state is not lost on me. In fact, I noticed something last night that made me pause. Something awesome.
In the middle of archiving a video that we shot a few weeks ago, I decided to watch it. Normally, I do not do this. I just drag it to the archive, wait for the prompt to finish and move on. But, I double clicked, and it played. Having some time, I decided to sit back and watch the video play. I listened as my beloved narrated the scene, and watched as Zoey and David played. Their laughter filled my ears. I listened as Zoey ‘spoke’ with David about the tower they were building. Upon hearing this, I was startled. I sat up and rewound it. Playing it over and over again. With each repeat of Zoey’s ‘speech’ a smile broadened upon my face.
Why did Zoey’s ‘speech’ on the video cause me to pause?
I reference Zoey’s speech abilities with quotes here because, well. Let’s talk about that for a second. Due to the structural issues that Zoey was born with, due to her Craniosynostosis, things like eating and speech have never come easy to her. We have been thankful that David, since very early on, seems to be able to understand her, perhaps even better than we do.
But that is the thing. Kati and I can often understand what Zoey is trying to say. We live in this world where many around us look to us with a perplexed smile as they wait for us to decipher. We roll with it. But, we often lose sight of the advancement she is making. Watching this video, I realized that in just the last few weeks some astonishing advancements have been made.
It caused me to reflect to the other night. After cleaning up the dishes from dinner, I handed Zoey a bowl of ice cream. As I stepped away from the table a sweet sound came from behind me. My daughter saying, clear as day, “thank you daddy”.
Why the video we take is important to us?
The videos that we are capturing are not for vanity. They are to show us the steps that our children are taking. They are moments in time, forever captured, to show where they are. Down the line, we can reflect at where they have been, and see the huge strides they have made along the way. These videos are the archive of our successes, and failures, as we teach our children how to…
Live big, love bigger, and be kind, always.